On the bright side, she is confused. Confusion is better than divorced. She is still interested in you. Confused people say things that they do not mean. You are already married, and do not need to involve a third party. We already know that. I would read Michele's Last Resort Technique over and over again; then, implement it. If you REACT to her words right now, it'll backfire. If she speaks nonsense, do not argue. Remember that love is action word, and not a feeling. Just act AS IF you are friends, keep busy, and stay away from the "I love you's". Believe in your vows. Patience is key. If you need to refresh yourself on Michele's techniques, please start with the Advice from Wise DB'ers.