Well, I have talked with my IC on this. He says that the honeymoon period can last up to two years. I know, it's a long wait but I have been with my H for 17 and I plan to live till 90 so in the grand scheme of things....
I think there are cracks happening in the A but can't confirm because he won't talk to me about OW, obviously. So I am just guessing here. But I think it would take a bulldozer to drag him back here because of pride and that he is not a person who wants to admit he has made a mistake, he's a perfectionist and it's just his nature. I know him. So even if the A does go south, I think it would take my H a long time to turn things around. But after all that, the A has to end first, right. Because right now, it's all just speculation.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
