I haven't posted in quite some time, but I'll give ya a quick run down, WAW left in June, moved in with OM in July. I filed in Sep for numerous reasons, anyways I didn't date anyone, although I had some opportunities, she was always on my mind, after I came to the realization she wasn't coming back I started to think about some of the women that were attracted to me, and I think it's time for me to date some of them. My question is I really feel a pull towards 1 of them,known her for awhile but never romantically involved, she now wants to be. I don't know why, she is very nice but I'm scared for some reason it may be a rebound thing, the last thing I want to do is hurt someone innocent, should I just keep turning her down? It's hard, I think I'm ready to date but I'm not ready for a serious relationship and I think that is what she wants from me. I need advice from someone who has had this happen.