I vote expose, and I prefer the nuclear option (everyone at once). I did everything but call her work and out her to management simply because I knew if she got fired I would be on the hook for more money in support.

Not outing an affair is a passive acceptance of the affair.

H: 38
W: 36
S: 8
S: 5
M: 16
Bomb: 8/25/08
OM: 9/21/08
EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...)
Sep: 9/21/08
D Filed 9/23/08
My Situation