I'm so glad to hear from you, I've been wondering about how you've been! Congratulations on finding a new place, good luck with your move!
Your H sounds *really* confused. Why does he say "our room" but not "our myspace"? I hope he finds the courage and strength to face his own self, and own life, and embrace it all as part of one, coherent self. I hope he finds the courage to celebrate his love for you and your daughter, and not keep you seperate.
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This is what he said "I wish I could just say that I wanted to come back but its hard knowing that I have the urge to leave. The thing you should know is I am not with anyone and in my mind I still want us to work. I feel that you relocating closer will help me adjust. All I can ask for is time."
Wow, maybe I am misreading, but that doesn't sound like someone who wants permanent separation. It sounds like someone who is really confused. Has he told you why he still has the urge to leave? What is it that drives him away? It sounds like he is being reptilian (passionate marriage talk) here... fleeing instead of growing up??? But it really sounds, to me, like he is asking you for more time while he works through his stuff, because he wants to work things out with you.
Are you still up for waiting? Do you see him/feel him doing work to move himself forward? Is he in therapy? Are you in therapy? Would you ever go to therapy together?
big hugs to you, where. Keep us posted. LOVELOVELOVELOVELOVE T
