AchingMan, I'm sorry if what I wrote was offensive. I know you love your wife and it can't be easy to hear others say negative things. I think I reacted emotionally to your post because from your description she comes across as being cold and unfeeling. I know that hearing an objective opinion can hurt at times but I think it's healthy to get the opinions of those on the outside looking in. At times we need someone to give drastic opinions. I don't want to cause you more stress or pain, just want to try and help. I hope you are doing well and please keep in mind that it's only an opinion. Ultimately you have to do what is right for you no matter what others might think. Cathy~
