I am talking from what I've seen, and holding a DB perspective. I've had a boyfriend 'cheat' but I didn't have to deal with this in my marriage. If I had to actually live it, it is very possible that it would be public knowledge.
However, if I were the one having the affair, and I were exposed, and humiliated, I would never go back to the marriage.
It does work for some ... like puppy and saffie....
Last edited by sgctxok; 02/19/0903:15 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
