Followed you over from Jenn's posts. Okay, my best advice for you would be to leave her alone. Let her get pissed off on her own and just give her space. Don't be her knight in shining armor.
Everyone here understands how deep an EA can be for a woman. And right now your W is debating what to do. She's not totally gone which is a good thing. Some of our WAWs had dropped the bomb on us and just taken off. My W had an EA with her boss so I know what you mean about office romances.
Just do your own thing and take care of yourself. You can be friendly with her, just not too friendly where you're in her way. When things get more civil between you two, then you can start warming up the friendship again.
In your case, going dim would be good. It'll give her the space she needs.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
