Yes, in a weird way I'm ok with this. As I said, thanks to this board, I've been expecting this. Is this the beginning of his hitting rock bottom? I almost hope so.
Not sure how to answer it yet. That's the beauty of going dark. This time last year a note like this from him would have sent me into a tail spin - "OMG he hasn't changed his mind! He's still leaving me! What am I going to do!"
Now I'm like "Ok, gee, well let's see, hmmm, I'll sleep on it, copy it to my L, figure something out. Poor H - I hate it for him".
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
