1. You need to tell the OM's W. You didn't like not knowing and if the OM doesn't have enough balls to tell the truth than someone has to. He is already hurting his kids by not respecting thier mom. Ask God and I'm sure in your heart you know what you need to do.
2. I wouldn't get too cocky when you talk/argue with your W. It almost seems like you enjoy having this leverage. I know it's nice to have the info but just be careful how you use it.
Do you have somewhere to go? I thought you 2 went over the custody aggrement awhile ago. Why hasn't that been signed yet? That is the 1st thing you need to get done before you do anything. If you continue to piss her off she could really get you through the kids. I know it's not right but she will use whatever she can.
H-41 (alcoholic) Me-38 D-13 SD-10 T-6yrs M-4.75yrs Bomb-10/4/08 Moved in w/OW 11-13-08
