"Maybe I missed it, but why *hasn't* your W seen a doctor?"
She hasn't seen a doctor regarding her loss of libido because it is not a problem for her, she doesn't see any reason to fix something that doesn't need fixing. She doesn't want to enjoy sex again. In fact, she doesn't want to take any medication, even if it means a better life for both of us.
How can such a well educated intelligent woman be so ignorant and blind?