I know you've heard it before, "when you don't know what to do, do nothing". She has to come back to YOU, not the other way around.
Hang in there.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10