Thanks!!! I don't want to celebrate too much though. I look at it as a small victory of a battle. I want to win the war and have my wife come home. So I will not gloat and I will still keep my PMA.
It felt great not arguing. Yeah, I will not be affected financially by her decision. Wait, yeah I will Ok, reality sucks. So I'll have to make some adjustments. Oh wait, I didn't spend that much money before, she did! It still sucks, but hey at least I stood up for myself. So, I have completed a 180. I stood up for myself without getting angry and without arguing.
You are right Melissa. Tomorrow 4 rings or maybe I'll let the machine get it.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!