Okay, I get the feeling you are signing off b/c you are trying to convince yourself that all if fine b/c this is your buddy she is confiding in. Have you never heard this happens all the time? Don't be foolish and stick your head in the sand. Look, I don't know your lifestyle, but I know my H would never have sat back and watched me leave with two other guys on a vacation without him along......I don't care if it was his best friend. And, did you mention that you were going to trust this guy's integrity? Are you kidding me? Well, I'm afaid you are in for a real shocker.
Anyway, it is not appropriate for a married lady to do that. At least not where I come from. Maybe you are on the other side of the world for all I know, but I think you are trying to look the other way and you will be sorry b/c it smells of a huge EA if not more. I hope you will wake up and see what is happening or may happen at any time. I think his wife is crazy for allowing him to go without her along. Most women have a 6th sense about OW having a "thing" for their H's. Maybe she is as blind as you are.
Just expect to hear your W tell you that she loves you but she isn't "in love" with you....any day now.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
