You are doing fantastic!! So proud of you. Yes it does work but getting people to believe that when they first come here is hard to do b/c of their fear of losing their spouse. They cannot understand how pulling back draws them closer to you, but it does.
Let me ask you a question about her temper tantrums. If she is having one of these and the phone rings or somebody comes to the door, does she immediately cut it out and act normal? If so, that proves she can control her fits but she just does not want to do it. People who throw tantrums....LIKE throwing them. They have used that as their tool of emotional blackmail for so long until some do not know what else to do to get their way, so they act like a two-year old. However, it is much, much worse when it is an adult behaving like that. There is no excuse for it. It shames me to think my own gender acts like that instead of acting like a graceful and poised lady!
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asked me if I had seen her mp3 player recently (why would i know where that is? -
Isn't it so funny to sit back and watch this played out for you? I mean it is sooo obvious that she was looking for any excuse to call you. Yep, it is working just fine! So, keep doing what works b/c you are finding cheese at the end of those tunnels.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
