In my state, they seem to have 2 standard arrangements: some dads have one night a week and every other weekend (what my L says H will prob. get and more than he sees them now) or they have one week on and one week off which sounds 50/50 to me. I don't see why you wouldn't be able to have the 50/50 if you want that. I mean my H could have 50/50 prob. if he wanted it I would think. What does your L say? Karen
