H has officially filed. Please help me!!!!!

[MomInPain]

So you know that I told him I am moving out with the kids at the end of this month. He seemed very concerned about not being able to pay everything if he has to pay the mortgage. So I send him this email.
side note: I never initiate contact. This is a first.

Here is what I sent:

My consultation isn't until next Tues.

Would you rather I wait to move until after March?

Here are 2 ideas to help with what your concerned about.

Lower the child support by increasing your custody 50/50 or each weekend.

Keep me on your health care and subtract the amount from what you figured.

Thoughts?


Here is his reply:

Well I don't think we can really talk about this stuff until you have your consultation.

Moving out-You can move out whenever you want to.

Custody-There are options we can discuss.

Medical-Once the divorce is final I don't think that having you on the policy is an option.

He has done all D papers himself, he has no interest in hiring an attorney and is insistent on working together and come to an agreeable arrangement.

His reply is suspicious to me. He is a cheap ass so I don't see him hiring an attorney anytime soon to fight me for custody or anything like that. I don't like that he won't communicate by email though cause I don't do well with him face to face and he knows that. I break down and if I don't cry I get tongue tied.