I am in for the long haul kat and thank-you for being here for me I appreciate it vey much. Yes I know you two have become close and she is lucky for having someone like you to get her past this nonsense.
I have told her her some of my plans to better myself like enrolling in A.A. cause in my eyes it is a major problem in my life right now.
The problem that I have is that I know about OG and it kills me inside that i drove her to this. The other night she was so upset that she told him she didnt want to talk to him nomore and he didnt seem to care. This really hurt me deep and now I know what W went thru everyday. This is why I think I push the issue of coming home cause I dont want to see her like that ever again.
Another big concern of mine is that she lied to me about having sex with OM which also hurts. Even though she said it was over with OM cause he wasnt leaving his girlfriend for her which she was led to believe (I think he toke advantage of her emotional state and just wanted to put a notch on the bed post) Im finding myself having a very hard time believing her.
I hate this feeling and sorry to W for ever putting her thru this misery. Its not pretty on the other side.