Pearlharbr, Thank you for your reply! I so appreciate hearing from others and getting more perspectives on all of this.
I waffle back and forth about letting H get his own place and wanting to help him. In the end, though, he's expressed his desire for independence, so what better way to give it to him? It just hurts to see him struggle - I want to help, but in the long run it won't benefit us. He has other friends he can lean on for help with an apartment search, so I'll leave it to him.
I'm making a pit stop at the local health store today to ask about sleeping aids. I'd like to try something natural, so I'll see what's available and give it a shot.
Thanks again, pearlharbr, for stopping in to comment.
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Me - 29 H - 29 M - 6 months T - 8 years ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09 Recovery begins 3/1/09