Haven't talked to the wife at all today. I'm contemplating waiting on her to call as that was one of her major complaints--me calling and bothering her all the time. So I guess that would be a 180 for me
Finished "Hold On To Your N.U.T.S. Liked the part about not arguing--apparently I have been an enabler for many years--I feel pretty stupid looking back on things I've argued about--they hardly seem important now. Fairly fast read w/ good info that I could have used a few years ago.
Starting thinking about the whole situation today and started getting pissed again. Couldn't let it go so I lifted weights for a while and ran. What's amazing is that I seem significantly more relaxed about almost everything else. The little things that used to bother me aren't anymore. Why is that? I just am not in a hurry to do anything and don't want to feel stressed about anything as I've had enough stress in the last few weeks to fill a couple of years. It is getting easier to accept but I still don't like it...
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!