It's been awhile since I've had time to check the boards. Sorry to hear that things aren't showing any significant improvement. I'm afraid you're finding with the Paxil what I found with my treatment; the side effect only effects the physical component of the hunger for intimacy, and at this point that isn't enough to make a major change in the pain. If it goes on with really NO impact, though, get back with your doctor and try something else. When it comes to these classes of medications there's as much art as science in finding which one works best for which person; we tried three or four on our one son before we found one that helped at all. Hang in there!
HERE is Edward Bear, coming downstairs now, bump, bump, bump, on the back of his head, behind Christopher Robin...sometimes he feels that there really is another way [of coming downstairs], if only he could stop bumping for a moment and think of it.