Neglected...blah. That's what I think of it. Sure, you probably didn't show her as much attention as she would like, but her sudden lack of love has as much to do with OM as with you. You could dote on her 24/7 and she'd still feel you didn't do enough. I don't believe that OM is not an issue anymore or believe her when she says, "she isn't ready for a relationship with anyone". If she moves out, her and OM will be a steady item in no more than two weeks.
That's beside the point. I do not think your plan of action is to either withdraw entirely or to smother her with attention. Perhaps try to introduce a few outside activities into your life and casually invite her along. If she says no, then go anyway. Show her attention in the form of casual, friendly questions about her job, her day, her life, but don't follow her around like a puppy dog. Be strong, be put together, be seemingly happy, and accept that although you may want this to work out, it may not (but you'll survive and thrive). Don't ditch your life or schoolwork for her sake.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
