This is a total sidebar, and I'll probably get blasted for this, but why is it when a man is BUSTING HIS ASS to provide for the family, and working long hours, he is said to be "neglecting" his wife?

I wonder if she liked the income you were providing.

Not saying this doesn't happen, but I'm guessing that this is just a smokescreen 75% of the time.

OK, end of entirely-un-PC rant.

Puppy