If you have a L already they can serve via your L. Believe it or not, I was never served. Found out about it via a nosy friend and the newspaper!!
I know here where I live the norm is one day a week and every other weekend. He was so wrapped up in codes and such that is all he asked for. He waited for the last court day to say he wanted another day. I knew the kids were already miserable with the arrangement so I said No, let's leave it the way you planned it. Now he constantly threatens me that he is going to take me back to court to get more time.
I know that you are a great dad. You can tell by the way you talk about them. You have their feelings at heart. Maybe they would accept a petition that we all could sign telling them how obvious it is that you are their rock.
Stay strong. We are all here for you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory