Our current situation right now is that she's working full time bringing in 60k a year and I'm a full time student bringing in 30k between loans and part-time job.
A second apt. is honestly not anywhere near affordable and under normal circumstances would be a punch line to a joke. Reasoning, though, is not quite working at the moment.
As for the OM, I've gathered that her residual contact with him makes her feel wanted and prevents her from recommitting to us. She's said that he still has feelings for her but she doesn't know if she's capable of having feelings for anyone at the moment.
Together since Feb. 2003 Maried since July 2007 Bomb occured early Dec. 2008 She's approved for a lease mid Feb. 2009 (deciding on if to take it or not)
