I had a brief email exchange with our MC in preparation for another session tonight (whew) and I told her about H's request for help looking for an apartment for himself.
She supported my reaction/decision NOT to help him find an apartment, as it's something he needs to do himself (I need to completely release myself from influencing this decision.)
It felt good to hear that I might have done something correctly!
Small victories...


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Me - 29
H - 29
M - 6 months
T - 8 years
ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09
Recovery begins 3/1/09