She can't make up her mind

[MrBond]

PDT is right. Just tell her what you will not accept and go from there. I think it was a good sign that she admitted what she did to you. Remember, an EA to a woman is very strong. Ask any of the WAWs on the forums. It'll take her awhile to come to terms with herself and what she did to you.

At least she was willing to take that step. My W had a strong EA with her boss which she keeps denying until I call her on it. Very hard to break.