Hi dwarf! Don't want to call you dumb now, b/c it sounds like you are trying to make smarter choices?
I agree with NC's and Kat's advice. Focus on yourself and making yourself the best person you can be. Have you read Divorce Remedy yet? That's a great book and I 100% recommend it. Keep posting here and following the advice. That's about it. Quit any pursuing and that type stuff. Try to GAL a lot. What kind of GALing activities are you doing? Karen