Things are going ok for me. I've had 4! interviews in the last couple weeks. I know I'll land a job soon now. (PMA!) I may even have choices.
My L has kind of put my D on her back burner ;/- since I am out of state. She took 1-1/2 weeks to get back to me on updating the final settlement, then she had tons of questions for me and left for a week long vacation a couple days later (this week). So, she told me the settlement may not be ready by the March 7 court date and we may have to reschedule for another date in the future. She wants to make sure I get the best possible agreement. My initial agreement with stbx gives him another 4 months to refinance the house(He is adamant about this). I don't want to rush into selling the house in this market, I'd rather see stbx refinance. My L thinks stbx is taking advantage of me, because I won't get my settlement payment from him for several months in this situation. She thinks I should require him to pay interest on the balance owed if I have to wait 4 months. Stbx may be mad at me when he hears about the delays. I'm not sure he will agree to interest, either. Any thoughts for me?
DBer since 2003 D - 3/24/09 GAL and DBing for myself
