Good for you Kevin! You see what happens when you assert yourself a little? Now she's on the defensive.
I was getting worried about you not getting to your point of empowerment.
If it was me, I'd tell the guy's W. He's bound to cheat on her again and in the end it won't be fair for the kids either way. Let him face his family like a mad. You did the crime, now do the time.
Right now she's throwing empty threats at you like a spoiled child. It's like when you punish them for something and put them on a time out, they throw their tantrum, get loud, and in a last act of defiance, throw things on the ground. That's what what your W is doing, especially by claiming that your bedroom is hers. Whatever.
When she gets like that, shrug it off, maybe chuckle a little and let her get off her steam. Once she's calmed down, she'll realize that in the end she'll have nothing. Not you and the OM. Then maybe she'll start rationalizing things.
Again...great job!
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
