I need you guys more than ever. Situation has changed dramaticaly since yesterday. Last night around midnight I heard a door bell and guess who was there? With her stuff? W was remorseful and asked me if I still wanted her back? After slight hesitation I said yes. Told her that appreciated this step, glad to see her back but it was late and said we should go to sleep and have "a talk" tomorrow. (today). Since now she's bringing the rest of her stuff back I have a moment to type few words.
Any suggestions regarding this BIG TALK? I don't have enough time to write down my script but that's pretty much what I want to talk about: It's obvious that I have to set boundaries; absolutely no contact with OM, change phone number, email and the job. With the last one I can help and looks like she doesn't want to work at her old place anymore. I have to set a plan to bring our M back on track. Should talk about what happened and how to change and improve our R.
I'm going to tell her that I can forgive and fight for our M only once in my life. If this kind of situation would ever happened again I'd file for D.
I know that this is not the end of it. The hard work just begins and there is a long road ahead of us.
My post is a little chaotic (for which I apologize), just don't have much time for typing right now.
