Sounds like there are some seriously mixed messages there, which just go to show the confused state your W is in right now! Remember to take ALL of those words of hers with a hefty dose of salt.

Sounds like you have been given a wonderful opportunity to grow your relationship with your kids!

lemonsnap

Me - 29
H - 29
M - 6 months
T - 8 years
ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09
Recovery begins 3/1/09