Those are the kinds of things I have been saying. to hear S16 that he doesn't miss his Dad and doesn't want anything to do with him about breaks my heart.

I see the damage ex is doing and it truly is like watching a train wreck in slow motion. He thinks because he tells the kids that they don't have to hide anything from me that he isn't hurting anyone. I guess we can all agree that he is an idiot and a mess.

I want to stop caring about what he does but then he keeps being stupid about the kids. I will be better off when I can figure out another way to get everyone where they need to be and not have to count on him. Then I won't have to see him every week day.

I also don't agree with his single parent comment. One night a week for 3 or 4 hours and every other weekend doesn't make you a single parent in my book. If he really was interested in seeing them more, he could ask me and arrange one on one time but he never can be bothered with that kind of thing.

kat


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