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Pup,

Got it. Thanks!


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

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Pup,

I read it...I need ALL the chapers Now! ;\)


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

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I've hit "Notify" and asked the mods. We'll see what they say.

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Thanks Pup....

It's like reading the the middle chapter of a book!

(LOL)..

Jeff


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

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If we can get them to restore it, just hold onto your chinstrap. It's one HELLUVA ride . . .

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Thanks Vdad for stopping by. Every bit of support is much appreciated.

kat


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Pup,

I was able to get a snapshot of where you were at a moment in time. It helps to see the journey...


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
My sitch
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Kat,

Absolutely! I am getting to a place where I'm getting out of the "ER" zone! I am able to start supporting others as I have been supported.

My heart goes out to all now as we become uniquely qualified to 'understand" as much as one can where those on this board are at.

I hope your day is a great one!

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***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
My sitch
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Journaling,

Picked kids up last nice. Got a few things from the old house. Chatted for a sec and left.

Fixed the kids spaghetti and was in the middle when my S7 realized he didn't have something for next day as W forgot to pack. Called her and asked if she would drop off.

She did and lingered for a minute. Kids were eating dinner and having a good time. She definately noticed I had cooked dinner not just bought something (180).

She commented on how the new place looked nice.

She seemed really sad as it was the first night she had to spend alone. NO INTERNET ACTIVITY at night after she left! NONE so far today! I would have thought she would have been going wild.

It helps so much to start to detach and move forward...

V


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
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Sorry I haven't been much help to you. My plate has been kind of full but I intend to get caught up. Thanks for your advice again. It help to have someone that isn't in the middle, you know. Thanks again.

kat


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Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
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