Am I doing the right thing by not forcing S16 to go to his Dad's?
kat
Kat,
Yes!
He is at the age of choice. If he choses not to go than he shouldn't be forced. This is between him and his Dad. It's THEIR relationship which Dad is causing huge damage to now.
Support your son, listen to him. By the way there isn't a judge out there that wouldn't ask a 16 year what he wants if it came to that. Your H will regret this one day, unless he refuses to EVER look inward. A 1000 OW's won't fix his anger and depression. Just cover it up.
My .02 cents... Sorry for the rant but I've lived this. It can turn around with H and S16 but the H is going to have to come around.
V
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
