I am kinda stuck in that limbo area as well. We live almost like brother and sister. We sleep in the same bed. She still talks about the future using words like "we" and "us" and "our". We end every phone conversation with "love ya" and kiss (peck) when leaving each other. We even ML on occasion. But we don't hug and kiss spontaneously like we used to, we don't hint to each other about what we want to do after the kids are asleep, etc. I think these things can come back, but I am impatient, too. It is a battle of will to keep from grabbing her and hugging her during the day, or whispering to her what I want to do to her later. I feel like we are so close to where we were when we were first married, but not quite there. It was a rapid change from when I thought she was leaving to where we are now, but now the time is dragging. Hang in there, I guess is all I can say. I don't really know what to do now either. Good luck
why do you feel you must do something?? everyone feels like they should be doing something...
you can't do anything to bring them back..if they like what they see then they come back...show them the changed you...they might just fall back in love with the new you..
all this is up to them anyway..you have no contreol so just let it go..
