He was never like this before. He was a fairly decent guy.(Except for finding out that he was probably cheating on me most of the time). We rarely fought but at the same time he never stepped up when there were things broken around the house. He never wanted to learn. Still doesn't care to. Something was broken he chose to replace it. Sounds like that is what he did with our marriage huh?
I have been so good for the most part. I know I am in a better place. I am being the best single parent that I can be. He calls himself a single parent too and does the woe is me, I have to give all my money to you so I can't do anything. I just agree and say well those are the choices you made.
I told him that I won't be helping him from the sidelines anymore. He said well obviously it wasn't helping anyway. So he won't miss any help I have given.
I just want to get this out so that I can be ok tonight for the kids. Am I doing the right thing by not forcing S16 to go to his Dad's?
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory