I like it Rob! Very neutral and clear, but also stating to her that you do not agree that you are putting money over your daughter.

I was pretty shocked by her email acutally, the anger, the blame, the unfairness in what she said.. and the thing that made ME angry (and your honoured, as I never get angry!) is where she said she had offered you more time with D.. as if its HERS to offer, your her Dad for chrissakes. Its like Kramer v Kramer! I dont get it, men have as much right to see their children as woman do, or is that some kind of spaceage outlandish view!?? Should be 50/50, unless it would be detrimental to the children in some way.

Send the email !