Thank you for putting the trust issue that way Mishka...I really werent sure how to tell him about the trust issue...i know he has to earn it back and I believe he can, but I know Im not ready for him to move home yet, but I am ready to date him.
Actually he did ask me out for this Saturday night. It was odd the way he did it, but it made me smile, but then we were talking and he upset me about something and I told him it did. Then he asked if I needed a hug, then if I was still going to go out with him the weekend if he could find a sitter for the kids....it is his weekend with them.
He did surprise me and when he got the kids yesterday, he actually got them supper and took the to the park...that is something he NEVER does without suggesting it to him. He is even getting them this evening for me to have some time to myself. Since he brought them home early last night.
Time and Patience...I have lots lately...I guess I really do need to spend some time reassuring him of stuff. Honestly he seems in a better mood when we do have R talks. I guess he is able to open up about it more.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10