Sorry sweetie, but some women have drives as strong as men do, so I understand your frustration. I just got my anti- depressant meds filled, too. Struggled for two weeks whether I would fill the prescription or not. I'm really loath to take them but the "black pit" of depression is as unbearable as my sitch. I just can't function, so I am going to try these dammed pills. Reading about the side effects scares the crap out of me. So far no effect but it can take several weeks. Keep in touch.