Originally Posted By: kat727

I was married to this jerk????!!!

kat


No. This is who he has grown into. Hopefully he will grow out of it.

If you can, let it go. It's HIS relationship he is destroying w/kids. Be the example of grace and integrity and give them a role model to look up to. They will. I've seen it happen. My wife did this when it was killing her. She is now reaping the rewards of a wonderful relationship with her daughter.

It's hard but it's worth it. They need you to be the bigger person cause' Dad's in a way bad place in this moment in his life.

V


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
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