No. This is who he has grown into. Hopefully he will grow out of it.
If you can, let it go. It's HIS relationship he is destroying w/kids. Be the example of grace and integrity and give them a role model to look up to. They will. I've seen it happen. My wife did this when it was killing her. She is now reaping the rewards of a wonderful relationship with her daughter.
It's hard but it's worth it. They need you to be the bigger person cause' Dad's in a way bad place in this moment in his life.
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***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch