He does that to me too, obviously since I got into a fight with him over it. Still puts me down for fighting for our marriage. I wasn't so nice either. Told him the only good thing that came out of this was the kids.

He of course blames me for the bankruptcy. That was my fault since I wanted to have something in writing saying that this money was coming in due to such and such. He was the idiot that thought I should get all the bills along with the money he had to pay for child support. He says I am living in the past, I have a problem. The house is messy, my fault totally. D8 didn't bother to have lunch yesterday, she knows how to make sandwhiches and get herself something if she is hungry but that is my fault. She had a dirty shirt on when he picked them up, he didn't make her change it but that is my fault. Oh, I was working yesterday and he didn't even bother to tell me that they had a dentist appointment. My fault that I am not a mind reader.

He thinks we should be able to talk but never thought it was important until recently and is totally blown away that there are any problems in this department. My fault again.

No wonder he wanted to get rid of me, I wasn't perfect like his highness. NOT!!!!

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory