New year, new challenges. W pregnant by OM.

[JDOllie]

Affairs are short-lived, fantasies - rebound-type relationships. RARELY ever is the person someone that is long-term relationship material.

Hence the freak-out. I imagine it is surreal right now, so I understand your feelings.

She is reaping what she sowed - unfortunately, you, your kids, and a whole lot of other people will also reap her sowing as well.