Just found out wife filed

[RobD70]

Hey SFF, I only talk the the W through txt and email and I'm dreading the day I have to see her again.

NC is the way to go and I'm betting after a couple of months my W may have a change of heart...of course I'm getting to the point where I don't want anything to do with her.

I see your's left 1/17 so it's only been a month for you. Normally they start having second thoughts at the 3 and 6 month mark so keep that in mind.

If my W doesn't reach out to me by the end of March (my birthday) then I will completely write her off and push for finalizing the D. It's either all or nothing for now on and no more being the backup guy while she tries to figure out what she wants. I need to worry about what I want.

One thing that helps me is asking myself "What does the W do for me that some other woman can't?". I don't have an answer for that.