DA Club II

[pearlharbr]

That's not cheating Tawnya, that's just being smart!

Ok, I went back to the original post and found the NC rules:

Rule 1:
If your spouse contacts you and initiates a pleasant conversation, this does not restart your self-imposed regimen of going dark.

Rule 2 for those of us with shared pets and kids:
Initiating a call to spouse for the sole purpose of scheduling, etc, for kids or pets also does not restart your regimen.

I will add that I think other necessary things like finances fall under rule 2. But you must be honest with yourself about the necessity.

Of course we're on the honor system.