Little turn of events, W in response to my phone call of general chit chat (really me avoiding potential land mines which she has laid) has called back and said we need to talk. Sounds ommernous (sp?).
So I guess from my point of view it is to listen & validate but I still want to get a couple of points across. ie a week of silence doesn't work plus, telling me to f**k off shows a lack of respect.