Sorry about V-Day and the dinner with the in-laws. That would be a tough sitch to deal with.
No doubt the kids would be a tough spot when an ex isn't putting their needs first. He is in another dimension . It sounds like your doing well dispite the isloted moments.
Let's hope he wakes up someday and realizes what he has/is doing.
V
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch