Just found out wife filed

[RobD70]

Yea she knows there wont be any money. They pulled their offer anyway so back to square one.

After this weekend, I'm betting the W doesn't think I'm pining away for her anymore. When she emailed and asked when would be a good time to get her stuff and if I just wanted the boys to get it then it would have to wait until Sunday. I said Sunday was fine. I also saw that SHE took someone out on V-day (family I'm guessing) so I guess she didn't spend all day with the OM (she spend some money out of our account, if the OM was there he would have paid since he's Mr. Moneybags). I'm sure the OM did something for her but I'm getting the impression things might not be all rainbows and puppies with them. I could be wrong...but odds are I'm not considering their history. The last couple of times she was with him it took a couple of months for the tarnish in the R to appear.

Another odd thing is she still hasn't served me the papers yet. I'm wondering if she was ever going to tell me about it to begin with and just did it for the OM's sake. She had them for a week before she even told me and only told me because she was afraid the counselor was going to spill the beans.

I might be just looking at this all wrong but if it makes me feel better than what's the harm. I can just "act as if" she wants me back but is afraid to talk to me and I can just sit back and enjoy my freedom lol. I know she doesn't want me, at least right now anyway so I'm not that delusional. So far I've been good at not snooping or asking about her from anyone. Even when the boys came over we didn't even bring up her name.

This last week I've been really hating the W, I'm hoping I get past that. I am trying to go under the assumption that we will D in April and there's a good chance of her marrying the OM. I figure that's worse case so if I prepare for that then if it really happens I'll be ready for it.