There is no easy fix. No one is going to say do x,y and z and you will win her back. Work has to be done, by you. You know she was here for a long time trying to figure out how to bring you home and save your marriage. You kept telling her that nothing was going on.

You need to hear her now. You won't win her back by constantly telling her that you love her. You need to show her by actions that you can respect her space. You need to take this time to focus on you and get yourself to a place that you can be proud of. We will help if you really are willing to try.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory