I found that my W or ex as she puts it is wanting to be desired and not be lonely! she has said we can't be at the same time, this is my conflict. If I try to do these things while she is still dating? will that make her want to back off more or could I do this a little at a time. she has been more friendly and is struggling with thinking she needs to find the one. She is dating more then one guy, I know it has been trouble for her. Should I be the one she that stands by her... She used to call me the one! I know she is having sex with at leat one. I also have had the kids show they really miss me, SS has asked and begged me to stay.. can I capitolize on this?

Last edited by pauld2100; 02/18/09 02:04 PM.

Me 40
waw 39
Never formally M
Common law
SD 16
SS 13
Together 9 yrs
bomb 10/2/08
She started dating 11/08
Started P/A 01/09
Contiunes to call R over